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What does meditation do to your brain

June 24, 2015 By Kay Walker

Meditation is a Buddhist derived practice that teaches you how to control and focus your thoughts, as well as, how you react in conjunction to what you think.  During the meditative act you learn how to develop a state of attention that’s highly alert and relaxed. The ultimate goal is to learn the skill of objectivity.  To “be with what is” in reality, with indifference to it.

What does meditation do to your brainThere are numerous types of meditation and each has specific guidelines.  For example, Metta meditation involves focusing thoughts on compassion. Vipassana meditation is highly active and involves being completely aware of physical states (some painful and some not) and being non-reactive to what you feel. In general, all types fall into one of two categories:

  1. Focused attention: involves focusing your attention on an object or subject during the whole meditation session. This object may be your breath, a mantra, a part of the body, an object, or a something you visualize such as a memory
  2. Open monitoring: keeping your attention open means monitoring all aspects of what you are experiencing and doing your best to be objective about it.

Meditation can be done while sitting but you can also actively meditate while walking or standing.

What does meditation do to your brain?

What scientific communities say about meditation:

Scientific studies prove that meditation has many benefits.  It’s been known to reverse heart disease, pain, regulate emotion, reduce stress and increase the body’s immune system and its ability of prevent and fight disease.

When the brains of meditators and non-meditators are compared their are also common structural changes. Most meditators have higher levels of Alpha waves, which helps to lessen anxiety and depression. There amygdala (a brain region that regulates emotion) is smaller while areas of learning, memory, and emotion regulation are larger and function better.

  • A 2014 study at Johns Hopkins found meditation to be as effective as antidepressants for treating depression.
  • In a study conducted by Harvard Medical School, researchers used MRI technology (a form of brain imaging) that allowed them to view activity in the brain during meditation.  Their findings showed that key brain regions activated was in charge of the autonomic nervous system, which regulates blood pressure and digestion. Those processes are intrinsically linked to stress response.

Benefits many people experience from meditation:

  • less anger
  • less stress
  • better sleep
  • fear reduction
  • physical sensations linked to emotions are reduced
  • better ability to socialize with other people (especially for people with social anxiety)
  • improved focus
  • improved attention and concentration
  • greater objectivity during life situation
  • increase patience
  • feeling more joyful
  • feeling more relaxed
  • greater empathy

A quick and easy way to try mediation:

  • Find a quiet space with no one around or distractions. Ensure the environment is dark and the temperature is comfortable for you.
  • Sit or lay in a comfortable position. You can be on the ground, in a chair, or bed
  • Set a 15 minute timer (you can increase the time as you get better)
  • Once you start the timer for fifteen minutes you will practice sitting quietly and focusing on your breath. Breath in through your nose and out through your nose. Focus on feeling the sensation of your breath. Focus on the sensations you feel as your breath moves in an out of your nose. Do this for the entire 15 minutes.  You will have thoughts during this time. Some will make sense and some won’t. When you have a though just allow yourself to think it and then practice setting it aside and bring your focus back to your breath.

This 15 minutes will likely be very difficult if you are not experienced in meditation.  Each time you practice, increase your time by 5 minutes. Try to work yourself up to an hour/day.

The key to knowing your meditation is working is that after a session you will feel relaxed, calm and joyful.

Filed Under: Treatments and Therapies, Uncategorized Tagged With: meditate, meditation, meditation and the brain, science of meditation, What does meditation do to your brain

Self-care: Are you getting enough?

June 24, 2015 By Kay Walker

What is self-care?

Self care is a set of intentional actions you take to nourish, or in other words, be kind to your physical and mental well-being. The different between fun and self care is that self care makes you feel relaxed, whereas, fun energizes you.

Self-care: Are you getting enough?

Common actions of self care are:

self-care: are you getting enough?

  • Getting a massage
  • Giving yourself a massage
  • Taking a hot bath
  • Sitting in a sauna
  • Going to a spa
  • Getting a manicure or pedicure
  • Getting a haircut
  • Meditating
  • Watching a movie or TV
  • Spending time with family members or friends that make you feel happy
  • Taking your dog for a walk
  • Petting an animal
  • Walking in nature
  • Gardening
  • Cooking and eating a wholesome meal
  • Sleeping
  • Listening to music you enjoy
  • Sex
  • Masturbation
  • Reading a fiction novel
  • Painting an abstract picture
  • Swimming
  • Sitting in a hot tub
  • Travel
  • Shopping

Why self-care is easy to forget about

Many self-care actions are not considered “productive” actions in North American Society.  (ie. What does getting a pedicure have to do with anything?). This is why it’s also not a learned skill, it’s a choice. So, most people don’t naturally put self care in their schedules. It is easily overlooked because it is not something you have to do, or necessary for your survival. Most of us learn to do the things we have to do before what we need to do for our health because doing what we have to do ensures our survival.

A good self care rule to stick to:

At a minimum, ensure you take at least three self care actions per week to ensure a you maintain a positive mental state.  At maximum consider incorporating this rule “treat yourself as you would treat a baby”. It is a good way to nourish your physical and mental state, and keep it top of mind.

When you “treat yourself as you would treat a baby” your actions are correlate, so you most likely only eat natural and wholesome foods, you make sure to dress impeccably, you go to sleep on time (or allow yourself some naps), you play and have fun, you work your body (like a baby practices their motor skills).

 

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Filed Under: Treatments and Therapies Tagged With: feeling good, self-care, Self-care: Are you getting enough?, the importance of self-care, treating yourself well

The importance of having fun

June 24, 2015 By Kay Walker

A quick definition of “fun”:

The popular online dictionary, Merriam-Webster.com defines fun as:

  • someone or something that is amusing or enjoyable : an enjoyable experience or person
  • an enjoyable or amusing time
  • the feeling of being amused or entertained

As you can see, words like “work”, “obligation”, and “responsibility”, do not fit in with this definition. It’s about having a good The importance of having funtime for the sake of having a good time. And it is crucial for your overall wellness and maintaining a positive mental state.

The importance of having fun

Why you need to make room in your life for fun

When you are having fun you are also in a state of pleasure and enjoyment. A moment of fun allows you to shift your mood quickly to a positive state. This can carry into your next activity even if it’s not something you consider fun. And when it does, helps you to enjoy more of your work, responsibility and obligation.

If you ask yourself what you work for or what you want in life, the answer is most likely linked to fun. It’s actually why we live. The human goal is life is commonly to be happy. And being happy is most often linked to activities you would consider fun.

Fun is an innate skill that cognitive psychologists believe is necessary for the way our brain is wired to make us conscious. Since you know how to have fun its not a focus of teaching. Education teaches us how to be responsible and work. That teaching over time, and the lack of teaching about fun has you lose practicing the skill so much so that sometimes it gets completely lost.

Try this now: Are you having fun?

Create a list of all the activities you consider fun.  This will be different for everyone.

Then, write down the actions you take during your week.  Cross reference the lists to see if the fun activities are there. If they aren’t you need to incorporate these activities into your week. Start with one activity and try to add more.

Are you having too much careless fun?

True fun is frivolous, that is, the activity has nothing to do with your day-to-day responsibilities.  Be aware that having too much frivolous fun is also not healthy. You’ll know you’re doing this if you see many of your fun activities and less responsibilities on your list. Too much careless fun can translate to over indulgence and an unproductive life that isn’t forwarding accomplishments you’d like to attain.

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How art therapy can help relieve depression

June 24, 2015 By Kay Walker

How art therapy can help relieve depression

Art  is an incredible tool to use when you feel depressed.  It is a way to divert thoughts about your pain temporarily to get some relief. It can also encourage you to feel some pleasure, at the same time you feel depressed. It can include watching a form of entertainment, listening to music, or even creating a piece of visual art.

When I was in the hospital being treated for depression, there was great emphasis on art as a tool to escape and ease symptoms of mental and physical pain.

How art therapy can help relieve depression

Here are some of the art activities I used as therapeutic tools:

I listened to music and was able to get some enjoyment from life. The words helped me focus my thoughts. I listened to songs that reminded me that life would get better.

I watched funny shows. Even when I couldn’t laugh I could appreciate that these shows were funny. I remembered what it was like to enjoy the shows when I was healthy. I remembered how pleasurable they were.

Visual art projects helped me escape from negative thoughts. I created art pieces that made me feel as sense of a accomplishment at a time in my life where my body and energy levels restrained my actions.

Using visual art therapy:

I found visual art projects to be the most helpful for depression.  Though, there are times that using art as a therapeutic tool can be frustrating. Here are some rules to help you using art to relieve symptoms of depression:

Here are the rules for using art as therapy:

  1. Choose a simple art task:  Don’t try to create a masterpiece if you are not a regularly practiced artist, and especially if you think you have no artistic skill. That’s not what this is about. It’s about losing yourself in a project that requires you to focus on something beautiful and inspiring. Choose an art project that a Grade 3 student would do such as: Coloring a picture, painting with your fingers,  or painting a piece of clay.
  2. Keep it to yourself unless you feel like sharing. Creating a piece of art for the purpose of therapy and enjoyment can be personal.  You don’t need to make something you think other people will love. It’s more about exploration. You don’t need to share your piece. If you want to go for it. But make sure you are comfortable with constructive criticism.
  3. Stop if you get frustrated. If the project you chose is making you irritable, angry, or mad at yourself, it’s time to stop. Clearly this isn’t a relaxing process. Stop. Throw away the piece you are working on (or come back to it another time) and start again later.

If you’re interested in losing your mind in art, here is list of suggested projects. It’s hard to go wrong with these art projects:

  1. Paint ceramics. Go an art supply store and purchase a piece of clay that inspires you. Buy some acrylic paints and clear glaze.
  2. Get a coloring book and color in a pictures.
  3. Purchase a paint by numbers kit.
  4. Use acrylic paints on a canvas, and props, like plastic forks and knives, to make paint an abstract picture.
  5. Learn how to Zentangle. It’s very relaxing design technique. Anyone can create a beautiful picture.

Filed Under: Treatments and Therapies Tagged With: art therapy, depression, How art therapy can help relieve depression, mood, treatment for depression, visual art

What’s Ontology?

June 24, 2015 By Kay Walker

I find it shocking that most people suffering from depression, well actually, most people in general, do not know about ontology. There are therapeutic disciplines that use it and it has been found to be highly effective. I believe therapies that use this science as a core teaching are the most powerful in the treatment of negative thinking that occurs with mental illness. Here is a brief outline.

What’s Ontology?

Ontology is, most simply, put the science of “being” (like psychology is the study of human nature). It is a school of thought that explores and uses fundamentals in existence, reality and being, as principle tenants.

Therapeutic disciplines that use ontology are interested in teaching people tools that allow them to be who they want to be at any moment that is in the present.

Experts from psychological disciplines would agree that humans have a tendency to act from past based tendencies or from thoughts about a future they would like to create. That suggests, that humans are rarely present in the moment.  And the actions that arise from this state of being, are not truly “being”. This has a direct correlation to actions you choose to take. The actions you take relate to the life you build around you. In this sense, you never learn to be in the present you only learn where are coming from “having been” or “hope to be” and that changes our reality.

Ontologically rooted therapy helps train you to focus on the present and choose actively how you want to behave in that moment.

 

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